Anonymous asked: how do I get over a guy?

1. What was your past with him? Did you date, hookup, or was he just your secret crush that not even your best friend knew about? (let’s be real, we’ve all had one).

2. As hard as it sounds, just ignore him! That could even make him like you more! Like playing hard to get. But if you do play hard to get and he seems to like that, don’t give in to easy, because thats what he wants you to do and then he’ll just hurt you by leaving you…AGAIN. Ignore his texts, calls, facebook messages, skypes, IMessages, BBM, looking at him at school, talking to him, or talking about him. If someone brings up him just blow it off like no big deal. But if you really want to text him, then text him! But like I said, act like it’s no biggie, then when the conversation is getting good, stop texting him! You heard me! Stop texting him. It drives every single boy out there NUTS and soon enough he will be falling into your arms. :)

2. If he was your boyfriend and he broke up with you or you broke up with him, then you don’t necessarily need to get over him right away! It’s going to be hard, and it’s okay to be down about. But it’s not okay to start blaming yourself or others. Just talk to him, say you want to be friends like you were before you dated and he’ll have to agree, if he doesn’t, than truth be told, he was a douche bag. Flirt with some of his friends to get back at him. :)